May 2023

Some aspects of your perfectionism may be due to social programming

Concepts discussed: perfectionism I think that perfectionism tendencies–at least some–are internalized rules/beliefs from authority figures, experts, “gurus”, etc that one thinks they must live by. I’ve read or heard someone people deem successful giving the advice of “never quit” and listeners tend to agree. If one isn’t aware that such a blanket statement doesn’t make …

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A reason why people don’t take advice from you/others and suggestions for fixing that

Concepts discussed in this post: self-trust Terms used: Instagram video The psychologist in the below instagram video describes what I’d call the “let me help you” behavioral pattern of trying to course correct–typically with positive intent–someone engaging in some kind of pursuit or activity without their consent. Advice givers who have past experience with the …

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Some people suggest that imposter syndrome is a positive but is it?

Concepts discussed in this post: imposter syndrome Some people and entities like the article in the below instagram post may assert that having imposter syndrome is a benefit. Rather than accept this perspective I’d encourage anyone to self-analyze and determine for his or herself if having imposter syndrome is a benefit. I’ve had imposter syndrome …

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